Thursday, 8 August 2013

Some Sufic method Duas for Marriage

Bismillahi Babuna
Some Sufic method Duas for Marriage

Shaykh Muhammad Al-Yaqoubi said Dua to recite while seeking Marriage for men and Women, There are two Duas one is for the Male to recite and the other is for a female to recite:

Below this is the Dua for a Male to recite:

Rabbi innee lima anzalta ilayya min khayrin faqeerun

"My Lord! truly, I am in need of whatever good that You bestow on me!"

The above Dua was made by Musa (.a.s) while in exile, he was in his utmost point of need, of isolation, of loneliness At that time of depression, He reached out to Allah, to his Lord and said the above.
Read this 100 times a day and when you find her stop reading it.

Below this is the Dua for a Female to recite:
Females should recite for a husband the whole of Sura dhuha (sura 93) 11 times before zenith. Again Ideally after Fajr.

Waallayli itha saja
Ma waddaAAaka rabbuka wama qala
Walalakhiratu khayrun laka mina aloola
Walasawfa yuAAteeka rabbuka fatarda
Alam yajidka yateeman faawa
Wawajadaka dallan fahada
Wawajadaka AAailan faaghna
Faamma alyateema fala taqhar
Waamma alssaila fala tanhar
Waamma biniAAmati rabbika fahaddith

By the Glorious Morning Light,
And by the Night when it is still,-
Thy Guardian-Lord hath not forsaken thee, nor is He displeased.
And verily the Hereafter will be better for thee than the present.
And soon will thy Guardian-Lord give thee (that wherewith) thou shalt be well-pleased.
Did He not find thee an orphan and give thee shelter (and care)?
And He found thee wandering, and He gave thee guidance.
And He found thee in need, and made thee independent.
Therefore, treat not the orphan with harshness,
Nor repulse the petitioner (unheard);
But the bounty of the Lord - rehearse and proclaim!


Extra: Comments, Notes and Duas by - Muhammad Sajad Ali

Note: Read the above dua with the Niyyah of finding a wife or husband and the Best time is at Fajr. As Fajr is when Dunya Rizq or needs and it gives flow or Madat-Help of Dunya Support or needs. While making Dhikr at Asr gives rise to the Rizq of Spiritual Openings of the Heart and it gives flow or Madat-Help of Akhira Support or needs, As Sayyidun Adam was created at Asr time. 

From Imam Haddad ... be extremely careful to always keep alive the periods between the dawn–fajr and sunrise-(salat al-Ishraq is 15mins after is sunrise), and between the afternoon prayer-‘Asr and Maghirb-sunset for these are noble times where those servants  who turn to Allah receive the flow of assistance-(Madaad or madaat).

The time following the dawn prayer-Fajr when kept alive, has a powerful and specific effect in attracting material provision-Riqz, whereas, the time following the afternoon prayer-‘Asr if kept alive, has the powerful effect in attracting provision-Rizq for the heart-Rizq (also means knowledge). Taken from Imam Haddad’s book ‘Two treatises mutual Reminding and Good Manners’ in section from Good Manners Chapter 8’.

Dua for Marriage- by Shaykh Muzaffer Ozak AL-jerrahi from this book called 'Adornments of Hearts

Dua for Marriage this dua is for Females:
The Dua you need is Surah Ta-ha -Surah 20 -Recited twenty times (20x)

In the book by Shaykh Muzaffer Ozak AL-jerrahi called 'Adornments of Hearts' section Mystical Properties of the Holy Quran, it covers every Surah al 114 and gives a Mystical secrect of reading to Fulfill a Need or Solve a Problem.

The books says;
Surah 20 Ta-Ha (letters that Bear Spiritaul meanings)
Recited twenty times (20x), unmarried Daughters will find good Husbands inshallah.

by Shaykh Muzaffer Ozak AL-jerrahi

By Muhammad Sajad Ali

Method 1. Read Surah Yasin and making Waseelah dua for marriage
If a single male or female is looking to get married my Naseeha is they should first make and focus on a real niyyah for marriage it sounds strange but many people dont focus when making niyyah - (read my article about Spiritual Power of Niyyah-Intention; Understanding the Psychological Impact) and focus on it or any other need-(hajaat) to be fulfilled and then read Surah Yasin at Fajr for 70 Needs are fulfilled a day when Surah Ya-sin is read at Fajr and worldly needs are meet. Understand Marriage is  Half your Deen and the biggest worldly need is Marriage. Below are notes on the benefits of reading Surah Ya-sin;

Start with Salawat Shaeef either 1, 3, or 11 times of these its best to recite 11 times salawat shareef for a particular need to be fulfilled normally inshallah, of the salawats I suggest you use Salawat Fatih-(The Opener/Victory) for this purpose also other salawat that may be used and effective are Salawat Tunjina. Salawat Tunijina is known as the Salawat Of Relief and another salawat that can be used is the famous Salawat Naariyah the salawat of Fire known to help those in need as part of the salawat says;..."O Allah! Bestow complete blessings and perfect peace on Sayyidina Muhammad and for his sake may all our difficulties be removed, all calamities and agonies prevented all needs fulfilled; all our cherished desires obtained".
The method of a classical sufi style dua is, read you;
1. 11 times Salawat Fatih
2. and then Surah Yasin
3. and then 11 times Salawat Fatih
4. dua below and then close as surah al-Fatiha
Short dua of Waseelah-(intercession so duas are answered surely) Bismi'llahir-Rahmanir-Rahim wa hamduillahi rabbil 'alameen.Ya Allah i send all the Thawab-(rewards) of my reciting to the soul of Rasul-lillah (peace be upon him), sayyiduna Abu Bakr, Umar, Uthman, Ali Karam wajuh.
all the Sahabah-ikram, Ahli-Bayt, Uwais Qarni, Ta' bieen and Tab- Ta' bieen.
of nuqaba, nujaba, the fortify Abdals , awtad, aqtab,
Sidi Abbdal-Qadir Jilani,
Sidi Abu Madyan Ghawth,
Sidi Ibn Mashishi,
Sidi Abu Hasan Shadhili
(..mention any other great sufi master here if you name)
For the Ghawth of this time.
Help Me find my spouse help.
Close with With Surah Al-Fatiha

Method 2 Surah Ikhlas 1,000 times and make Dua for marriage

The manner of Recite is; read Surah Ikhlas 1,000 times with Bismillah and make above dua Short dua of Waseelah and ask for your needs or until your spouse comes or an invitation of marriage suddenly appears. You may also add or combine Method 1, Method 2, Method 3 and Method 4/5 or any of the other methods if you wish and also add the 1st dua as mentioned by Shaykh Muhammad Al-Yaqoubi at the very top of this article.

It is said that the one who Recites Surah Ikhlas 1,000 times will not die unless he sees his place in Jannah.

Reciting Surah Ikhlas 100 times, all his sins for the past 25 years are forgiven-(minor sins), constant recitation of this Surah will help keep the heart sincere inshallah, and Allah will also increase ur Rizq, to gain abundant wealth inshAllah. (except the sins of killing an innocent person or usurping the property of people).

Recite Ikhlas 100 Times and Enter Paradise to Your Right.

Anas (R) has reported the saying of Rasulallah(S) that, "If anyone who is about to sleep on his bed lies on his right side, then recited Al-Ikhlas 100 times, Allah will say to him on the Day of the resurrection, 'My slave, enter Paradise to your right side.'" (Tirmidhi) 

Reciting Surah Ikhlas recited 200 times daily gets forgiveness of 50 years of sins-(minor); but, if he has to pay loan to anyone,that will not be forgiven." and Allah will grant him 1500 Rewards (At-Tirmidhi and Darami)

“Sins of that who recites 1,000 Ikhlas with basmala are forgiven and his dua (pray) is accepted.”

“Whoever recites Surah Ikhlas 1,000 times between the afternoon and evening on the day of Arafa, Allah bestowes him whatever he wishes.” 

Method 3: read dua: Ya Badi'ul 'ajaaibi bil khayri ya badi'u 1,200 times a day for 12-21 days or more

Ya Badi'ul 'ajaaibi bil khayri ya badi'u
‘O Unique Originator of goodness, O Unique Originator"

This dua has been tried and tested and used by our pious predecessors for the fulfilment of any important task or need
the manner of reading is:
1. Read Salawaat 11 times.
3. Ask Allah for your wish or dua and then says: Ya Badi'ul 'ajaaibi bil khayri ya badi'u (read 1200 times)
3. Read Salawaat 11 times.

(keep reciting Ya Badi'ul 'ajaaibi bil khayri ya badi'u, 1,200 times a day for 12 to 21 days and inshallah a sign will happen, this dua is recited to fulfilled a wish or need or anyone wishing for a practical task to be accomplished and can be used for marriage too)

The Name - Ya-Badi‘u is From The 99 Holy Names of Allah:
its meaning: Wonderful Originator, Unprecedented and Incomparable Inventor, Absolute Cause, The Deviser.
. The Wonderful Originator
. The Unprecedented and Incomparable Inventor
. The Absolute Cause
. The marvellous One who originates, commences, invents and creates all that exists, without any model or material
. The One whose incomparable will-power first brings into existence all of the unique and amazing creation without any similarity to anything else that has ever existed
. The One who creates in wonderful, awesome, amazingly original ways that have no precedent whatsoever.

Method 4 Sufic Method for helping you Muslim friends get marriage.

This method of Dua is a sufic one, you do the above Method 1 and Method 2 BUT you dont make Dua foryourself instead you focus your duas ONLY for your singleton friends and DONT mention yourself in dua. Its known when you make duas for others the Angels say "Ameen and the same for you may Allah give you more" meaning the Angels are doing dua for you to get married but they also say and More.

Method 5 - Give Sadaqah for marriage

Just like Method 4 which is making Dua for someone else to get married and hoping the rewards are answered from the angels that are making reciprocally Duas for you, this is finanically helping others by giving Sadaqah and making the Niyyah for marriage which is very important when putting the sadaqah into jar or box. Make sure this is done every day even if its only a penny as Sadaqah again focus and makes niyyah for spouse to enter into yours lives. As the doors of Sadaqah is a Shield from Balah-Problems, and 70 Problems will attack you everyday, this is the Shield for that (then donate this money once it has become enough to someone in need or Islamic cause) see link Sadaqah is a Shield from Balah-trials/problems, 70 Problems will attack you everyday.

The Benefits of Surah Yasin (36)

1. The Prophet (SalAllahu alayhi wasalam) said, 'Surely everything has a heart, and the heart of the Qur'an is Yasin. I would love that it be in the heart of every person of my people'[Bazzar]. (S.Muhammad Ali Sabuni, Tafsir-al-SabuniVol.2)

2. The Prophet (SalAllahu alayhi wasalam) said, 'Whoever recites Yasin once Allah will record the reward of reciting the Qur'an ten times.'[Maqal, Tirmidhi 2812/A & Dhahabi]

3. It has been reported by Aisha (radiAllahu anha)that the Prophet (SalAllahu alayhi wasalam) said that there is a surah in the Qur'an that intercedes for itsreciter and forgive its listener. Know! It is Surah Yasin. It is called 'Mu'amma' in the Torah. It was enquired, what is Mu'amma? The Prophet (SalAllahu alayhi wasalam) said, 'it embraces the person with the goodness of this world and removes the dismay of the Hereafter'[Hashiya of Tafsir Jalalalayn , pg 368].

4. The Prophet said, 'Whoever recited Surah Yasin in the night seeking Allah's pleasure, Allah would forgive him'[Ibn Hibban, Darimi 3283/A, Abu Yala, Tabarani, Baihaqi & Ibn Mardawaih]

5. Ma`qil ibn Yasar (Allah be pleased with him) relates that the Messenger of Allah (Allah's blessings and peace be upon him, his family, companions, andfollowers) said,"Ya Sin is the heart of the Qur'an. No one reads it intending thereby Allah and the Next Abode except that Allah forgives them. Recite it for your deceasedones." [Related by Ahmad, Abu Dawud, Nasa'i (this wording is his), and Hakim, who deemed it rigorously authenticated (sahih)]

6. Imam Ghazali explained that this is because soundness of faith rests on acknowledging Resurrection and Judgment, and Surat Ya Sin details this in the most emphatic of ways. Imam Fakhr al-Din al-Razi concurred.

7. Imam Tibi explained in his commentary on Mishkat al-Masabih that Surat Ya Sin was called 'the Heart of the Qur 'an ' because of what it contains of overwhelming proofs, decisive signs, subtle spiritual meanings, eloquent admonition, and stern warnings.

8."Whosoever recites Surah Yasin in the early part of the day his needs will be fulfilled." (Mishkaat, Page 189) 

Please email me for any comments or queries Thank you

Giving Sadaqah will help with Duas being answered, Sins be erased and sicknesses are sometimes due to sins; Showing gratitude is sunnah and Allah loves those slaves who shows gratitude; gratitude earns more (ziyada) favours from Allah, Allah promises increased favours for those who are grateful and (hates misers see hadith below) "And when your Lord proclaimed: "If you are thankful, I will give you more"(14:7) and "We shall reward those who are thankful" (3:45)  Allah informs us that one of Satans primary objectives is to prevent humans from being grateful. So show you  support be Thankful for these Duas and Khidma and take more rewards from Allah by Helping and Support “The Sufi Healing Project” through Uns Foundation and take the barakah of this site and all the people who read its duas too through Sadaqah Jariyah.

Giving a small amount of sadaqah monthly is continuous giving which is most beloved deed before Allah. Everyday 70 problems come our way and Sadaqah is a shield to protect yourself and your family. The most beloved deed before Allah is that which is continuous, even if it is little. The constant giving of a little is said to please Allah more than the occasional gift of a lot. So if it’s in your means to donate a small amount of £2-£3 or more a month and Support “The Sufi Healing Project” through Uns Foundation.

Know about the shield of giving: "Give Sadaqah without delay, for it stands in the way of problems/calamities."(Tirmidhi) it says 70 problems that is one is shielded from 70 problems with just a small amount of sadaqah.

Saqaqah washes your sins away: "Sadaqah extinguishes sin as water extinguishes fire." (Tirmidhi) "Sadaqah appeases-(To satisfy or relieve) the Lord’s anger and averts an evil death." (Tirmidhi)

The Shade of Sadaqah: “The believer’s shade on the Day of Resurrection will be his Sadaqah.” (Tirmidhi)  "The generous man is near Allah, near paradise, near men and far from hell, but the miserly man is far from Allah, far from paradise, far from men and near hell. Indeed, an ignorant man who is generous is dearer to Allah than a worshipper who is miserly."(Tirmidhi)

Narrated Abu Hurairah (radi Allahu anhu) that the Prophet (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam) said: “There is no disease that Allah has sent down except that He also has sent down its treatment.” [The Book of Medicine: Sahih Bukhari] Allah has never created a disease but created its treatment, that is known by some people and unknown to others, except death. (At-Tabarani)

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